A few years ago, my life changed completely when I found out that we were expecting a baby. I was going to be a mother and I had no idea where to begin. I quickly immersed myself into never ending google searches; crafting uber detailed lists; talking to every single mother friend I had about everything that crossed my mind…
As I dug deeper into my research I was surprised to find how easily one can spend thousands of dollars on a little human before they had even had a chance to meet her. This, coupled with my “oh no you didn’t” primal daring personality trait, pushed me into this whole new level of frugal mindset. Was it possible to figure out ways to have a baby/ raising a child, without dipping into our pockets all the way down to our elbows? Yes, it was! And… Yes, we did!
So here we were… the rebel couple who usually stands out with their non-conformist thinking and attitude towards life were now taking on parenting. To make things even worse…we decided to homeschool. Being both self employed entrepreneurs, our work schedule was more fluid and not pinned down to a 9-5 regime. In addition, I had been running a successful piano and vocal practice for about a decade, devouring everything I can get my hands on in terms of developmental psychology, latest educational methods, motivational techniques etc. So…we decided to give it a go.
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This blog is a product of the never ending research journey I embarked on; an attempt to put all my scattered thoughts on these topics in order; a dare to give voice to some of my opinions and concerns; a reality check for my ego; and if by some crazy chance it becomes a platform for some to feel part of a pack then…hey…why not?!
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This blog is NOT…I repeat…NOT…to be taken as a professional advice on any psychological and financial topics. It is just an overwhelmed mom’s version of a book/wine/vent-all-the-way club. I hope you can join me!
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A Tardigrade you ask?
Well, in my opinion, this is only the coolest, most badass animal to ever exist on the planet. It has the ability to survive incredible temperatures in both ranges; radiation; and even in the freezing vacuum of space without protection. So, I thought, what a better metaphor to describe motherhood than an indestructible, micro animal with the ability to survive extremely cataclysmic events.
You are welcome!
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What Other People Say
If evolution really works how come mothers only have two hands?
Milton Berle
One thing I learned from watching chimpanzees is that having a child should be fun.
Jane Goodall
The quickest way for a parent to get a child’s attention is to sit down and look comfortable.
Lane Olinghouse
The Tardigrade Mom 